Can I Take my Own Blows?

Carmen to Carmen, Nose to nose


Can I take my own blows?

Can I duck and parry each critical remark or thought I make to myself?

Can I hug myself?

Can I see my own beauty?

Can I see the light in my own eyes?

If I can't win this fight with me, maybe I will compromise.

Sometimes it can be my way and others it can be my way!

Carmen to Carmen

Nose to nose.

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